1:1 Sex & Relationship Coaching

The relationship you've been dreaming about

Most people settle for relationships they tolerate. You deserve one you truly want. Through somatic, trauma-aware coaching with breath work and tantric tools, I'll help you become the version of yourself who creates deep, fulfilling connection.

Somatic & trauma-aware
For men & women
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Stop settling. Start creating.

Whether you are single and want to attract the right partner, or in a relationship that feels stuck, the path to the love and the sex you want begins with you. 

A holistic approach to intimacy

4 pillars that work together to help you transform your relationship with yourself and others.

Somatic Work

Your body holds the wisdom. We tune into sensation, movement, and breath to release stored tension and reconnect with your authentic desire.

Trauma-Aware

A safe, gentle container where past experiences are held with care. We move at your pace, building trust and safety as the foundation for intimacy.

Breath Work

Conscious breathing techniques to regulate your nervous system, expand your capacity for pleasure, and create spaciousness for deeper connection.

Tantric Tools

Ancient practices adapted for modern life. Learn to channel energy, deepen presence, and cultivate the sacred in your everyday relating.

How it works

A simple path forward

Three steps from where you are to the connection you've been longing for.

1

Book an Intro call

A free 20-minute conversation. We meet, you share what's alive for you, and we see if working together feels right.

2

Deep-dive 1:1 sessions

Somatics, breath, and tantric tools woven into sessions tailored to your nervous system and the relationship you want.

3

Integration & support

Practices to live between sessions and gentle check-ins, so the shifts actually land in your everyday life.

Anfisa Shimkevich, sex and relationship coach
Meet Your Coach

Hi, I'm Anfisa

I'm a sex and relationship coach who believes everyone deserves intimacy that feels alive, honest, and deeply nourishing. My own journey towards a healthy marriage, through shame around my desires and the slow work of feeling safe in my body is what shapes how I hold space for others.

My work weaves together somatic practice, trauma-informed care, breathwork, and tantric tools — gentle but powerful approaches that meet you where you are. Together we unwind what's keeping you stuck and grow the version of you who can give and receive the love and intimacy you've always wanted.

7+

Years of working with people

500+

Clients supported

1:1

Personal sessions

Who this is for

1:1 coaching tailored to your unique journey, whether you are a man or a woman.

For Women

Reclaim your sensuality and voice in relationships. Whether you have been disconnected from your body and sexuality, carrying past hurts, or simply craving a deeper kind of love, this work helps you embody the woman who knows her worth and attracts partnership that honors it.

  • Reconnect with your body and desire
  • Release guilt and shame around pleasure
  • Attract partners who meet you fully
  • Build relationships rooted in authenticity

For Men

Step into conscious masculinity and presence. This work helps you move beyond performance anxiety, communication blocks, and outdated patterns to become the partner who leads with depth and undeniable confidence.

  • Develop authentic confidence and presence
  • Move beyond performance-based relating
  • Learn to hold space for deep intimacy
  • Create a fulfilling sex life in your relationship

Sound like the kind of work you've been looking for?

The first conversation is free, warm, and pressure-free.

Book a Free Intro call

Stories of transformation

Real words from people who chose to stop settling and create the love they actually want.

"Working with Anfisa felt incredibly natural and safe. She has the kind of presence that instantly puts you at ease and makes it easy to open up, even about vulnerable topics. I never once felt judged or rushed. I felt truly seen and understood. Thanks to her guidance, our relationship experienced a meaningful shift in intimacy, desire, and overall connection."
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Kadri

1:1 Client

"Working with Anfisa has been a transformative experience... gentle yet deeply effective — guiding rather than instructing... permission to be nurtured... empowered to speak my desires... choosing care over chaos... incredibly valuable and worthwhile."
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Michelle Nonyellu

1:1 Client

"You are very helpful and pleasant so I felt comfortable to open up. We talked about my desires, you gave me useful tips on how to give space for them in my relationship and express them to my partner."
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Anonymous

1:1 Client

Pricing

Choose the pace that fits you. Every journey begins with a free intro call.

Single Session

€85per session

A focused 1:1 session to explore what's alive for you right now.

  • One 1:1 coaching session
  • Personalised somatic practices
  • Follow-up notes
Book an Intro call

3-Session Package

€240€80 per session

A short arc to work through a specific pattern or shift.

  • Three 1:1 coaching sessions
  • Between-session support
  • Tailored practices to integrate
Book an Intro call
Most Popular

10-Session Journey

€800€80 per session

Deep, sustained work for lasting transformation in how you love and relate.

  • Ten 1:1 coaching sessions
  • Ongoing integration support
  • Full arc of somatic & tantric practice
Book an Intro call

Questions, gently answered

The things people most often want to know before reaching out.

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Coming Soon

Couples coaching

Deepen your connection together. Future couples sessions will guide you and your partner through practices that rekindle desire, improve communication, and create a shared language of intimacy. Stay tuned for this offering.

Interested? Mention it in your discovery call.

Ready for the relationship you deserve?

Book a free 20-minute discovery call. We'll explore where you are, where you want to be, and whether we are the right fit to get you there.

No pressure, no obligation — just a conversation about what's possible.