Hi, i'm Anfisa

Psycho-somatic sex & relationship coach

500+ women guided

Anfisa Shimkevich, sex coach for women

For the woman ready to feel fully alive

Work with me
Anfisa Shimkevich

Hey, I'm Anfisa

I go where therapy doesn't

I'm a sex and relationship coach for women who feel switched off — who love their life on paper but can't find their desire, who want so much more from lovemaking and don't know how to get there.

My own journey towards a healthy marriage, through shame around my desires and the slow work of feeling safe in my body is what shapes how I hold space for you. I weave together somatics, trauma-aware care, breathwork and tantric tools so you can feel turned on again, open to mind-blowing sex and multiple orgasms, and filled with the joy of being alive.

Read my story

The approach

Come home to your body

Body

Your body holds the key. Through somatics and breathwork we release what's been stored, so you can feel sensation, safety and aliveness again.

Desire

Low desire isn't a life sentence. We find what switched you off and reawaken the wanting — for sex, for touch, for life itself.

Pleasure

Tantric tools and embodied practice to expand your capacity for pleasure — deeper lovemaking, fuller orgasms, multiple orgasms.

"Our relationship experienced a meaningful shift in intimacy, desire, and overall connection."
— Kadri

Is this you?

You want more

  • You struggle to feel desire, and you miss wanting sex
  • Lovemaking feels routine, rushed or like something to get through
  • You've never felt a mind-blowing, full-body orgasm — or you want many more
  • You want more joy, more spark, more life — but can't find the how

Whether you're single or in a relationship, the path to the love and the sex you want begins with you.

How it works

A simple path

01

Book an Intro call

A free 20-minute conversation. You share what's missing — desire, pleasure, aliveness — and we see if working together feels right.

02

Deep-dive 1:1 sessions

Somatics, breath, and tantric tools woven into sessions tailored to your body, your desire and the pleasure you're ready for.

03

Integration & support

Practices to live between sessions and gentle check-ins, so the shifts land in your bed and in your everyday life.

Investment

Choose your pace

Every journey begins with a free intro call.

5-Session Package

€400

A focused container to reconnect with your body and reignite desire.

  • Five 1:1 sessions, 75 min
  • Somatic & breath practices
  • Support between sessions
Book an Intro call
Most popular

10-Session Journey

€800

Deep, sustained work to transform how you feel desire, pleasure and life.

  • Ten 1:1 sessions, 75 min
  • Ongoing integration support
  • Full arc of somatic & tantric practice
Book an Intro call

Her words

"I arrived saying: I don't know what I like. I don't know if I will come. I don't know why I don't feel the same excitement during sex as I do when I imagine it. A past relationship had taught me to doubt everything about myself, and that doubt had moved in quietly with me and my new partner, especially at this vulnerable time. By the end of our session it felt like being plugged into a charger. Sensation in my breasts and my yoni, and the knowing that whatever I do from this energy, he will absolutely love it. I found the woman who knows what she wants. I found my way back to confident me."
— Anonymous, after one session
"OMG, I felt something down there for the first time!"
— Anonymous
"For years pleasure came with a sense of guilt. If I enjoyed something, a touch, an evening to myself, an orgasm, some part of me thought it was selfish. With Anfisa that turned back around: pleasure isn't something I have to earn, it's how I come back to myself, how I care for myself. For the first time in my life I let myself feel good without the guilt."
— Anonymous
"Working with Anfisa felt incredibly natural and safe. She has the kind of presence that instantly puts you at ease and makes it easy to open up, even about vulnerable topics. I never once felt judged or rushed. I felt truly seen and understood. Thanks to her guidance, our relationship experienced a meaningful shift in intimacy, desire, and overall connection."
— Kadri

Your questions

The things people most often want to know before reaching out.

Let's talk

Book a free 20-minute intro call. We'll explore where you are, where you want to be, and whether we are the right fit to get you there.

No pressure, no obligation — just a conversation about what's possible.

Ready to feel alive?

Book a free intro call